Turning Regret into Growth - Make Create Build

Keith and Laura dive into the complex relationship between worry, regret, and personal growth.

After last week’s recording, Laura mentioned the idea of “spending less time worrying and more time going after what we want.” This idea stuck with Keith, and drawing inspiration from Daniel H. Pink’s book “The Power of Regret,” they explore how worry and regret can be leveraged for positive growth and change.

We focus on adopting a “journey mindset,” reframing regrets as opportunities, and recognizing that growth is an ongoing process rather than a destination. Instead of letting past mistakes hold us back, we can use them as stepping stones to better decision-making and personal development.

Both Laura and Keith harness the powerful tool of journaling for processing thoughts and emotions. Keith shares his unique journaling framework, focusing on four key areas: shadow, environment, light, and focus (SELF). This structured approach helps provide clarity and direction when journaling, or facing challenges and uncertainty. When Laura journals, she asks herself, “what does my soul need to hear today?” and her pen flows.

We also touch on the power of normalizing difficult emotions by recognizing that others face similar challenges. Pink’s emphasis on self-disclosure through writing or speaking with others was Keith’s biggest takeaway from “The Power of Regret.” Laura highlights the crucial role of support networks in personal and professional growth. Whether it’s mentors, colleagues, or friends, having people to turn to for advice and perspective can make a significant difference in navigating difficult situations and overcoming self-doubt.

Everyone is on their own journey. By embracing our regrets, seeking support, and maintaining a growth mindset, we can turn our most challenging experiences into opportunities to keep leaning in like the leaders we are, on the journey we want.