Sensitive, Independent Partners and Friends

Was our relationship forged in hardship? Keith and Laura are sensitive, independent partners and friends.Β 

How did we make it this long in our relationship? We are both fairly sensitive. And, even though we both know that we love each other so much, and we never intentionally try to say the thing that’s going to be taken the wrong way, it happens.

We keep searching to better understand each other. Communication, curiosity and feedback are so important to us as we continue to learn better ways to support and show up for each other.

Keith and Laura

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**Sensitive, Independent Partners and Friends –  Episode 38**

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Are We There Yet?

This is more than a question. It’s a feeling. 

“Are we there yet?” applies to physical journeys and long-term life goals, aspirations and achievements. Whatever your resistance: doubt, impatience, lack of a clear vision for the future; these roadblocks can prevent you from starting. Keith and Laura both agree that taking the first step, beginning even if the plan or path is not entirely clear, is key to moving forward.

Laura designs and creates road maps. Her vision, clear direction, and ability to work a plan with defined milestones, ensures progress towards a well-defined destination. 

Keith enjoys flexibility, but can focus on the fear of what could go wrong. This stops him from even starting a project. For him it’s important to embrace the possibility of failure and learn from it. 

Keith and Laura both agree that taking the first step, beginning even if the plan or path is not entirely clear, is key to moving forward. We explore the benefits of both planning and flexibility. Emphasizing the importance of taking action and finding joy in the journey. After all, the unexpected delights and discoveries during a trip or project can be as rewarding, if not more than, the final destination. 

There’s no one-way to success. Whether you’re a planner or a go-with-the-flow kind of person, the key takeaway is to get moving and create the conditions to enjoy the ride! 

**Are We There Yet?  –  Episode 37**

Keith and Laura explore both planning and flexibility while taking actions to find joy in the journey towards their goals.

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The Women Who Made Us

Mother’s day is coming up. We are often thinking and wondering where we’re going. Facing forward, leaning in. 

But today, Keith and Laura take a look back, reflecting on who and where they come from, and the different lessons they’ve learned from both their moms and grandmas.

Here’s a special salute to the women who helped us become who we are and some stories and experiences that shaped us along the way.Β 

Mother’s Day ought to be more than once a year.

**The Women Who Made Us –  Episode 36**

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Unbuilding Blocks

Keith and Laura talk about their blocks. Blocks, the things Neal Brennan says make him “feel like something is wrong with me.” Neal had a whole Netflix comedy special about it and Keith has been watching and listening to his,Β Blocks Podcast.

We made lists of our blocks, noticed what was similar, different and of course acknowledge the importance of self-care and communication as keys to working through our blocks.

Thanks for joining us!

**Unbuilding Blocks –  Episode 35**

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Artificial Intelligence – A Work and Life Revolution

Keith just wanted to find some music to listen to while he wrote his morning pages. Before he knew it, he was chatting with his new friend Claude.

Laura joins the fun and talks about the ways she’s used AI and what she is seeing on the horizon. The AI genie is out of the bottle and it’s not going back in. You may be using AI and not even know it.  

Artificial Intelligence is shifting what it is we’re doing as a workforce. But, what does this mean for jobs that either haven’t been created yet or we haven’t conceptualized as this AI tool becomes more prevalent? 

Finding the right questions to help us utilize Artificial Intelligence and Large Language Model tools like ChatGPT, Claude.ai, and Google’s Gemini is going to be crucial moving forward. Knowing how to as the right questions to prompt these types of AI will give us better results and a better starting point to add our human touch to whatever cool new way we’ve discovered to use these time-saving tools. 

We are a long way from thumbing through the Card Catalog and scouring the stacks.Β 

Thanks for joining us.

**Artificial Intelligence – A Work and Life Revolution –  Episode 32**

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Prepare for Your Journey

Let’s create the conditions that help us do what we seek to do. And, let’s let go of those things that are no longer serving us. 

Grab your bag and get moving. It’s time to launch. 
Even if you don’t have it all figured out.

Keith feels a little unsettled, but optimistic. Uncertainty, right? Okay, but it feels like a shift is coming. Laura gets to talk about traveling and the uncertainty and adventure that comes with going on a journey. 

We’re balancing the adventure of “figuring it out as we go” and packing a little extra just incase. “You also don’t want to travel down to Indiana with a mattress on the top of your car.”

Thanks for joining us.

**Prepare for Your Journey –  Episode 31**

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What’s Your Hot Sauce?Β 

In today’s episode we start by discussing the GaryVee Audio Experience episode “How to Delegate and Balance Personal Involvement.” The big take away for Laura was when Gary brings up his Oyster Rule. This leads Laura to asks Keith some questions.

Have you ever said no before trying something?Β 
Has there been a time you tried something and realized that you liked it? Even though you expected to not?

For Keith, trying β€œthe thing” is the point, simply trying something and seeing how it goes. Did it feel like it went well or it didn’t go well? Does it matter that it didn’t go well? Do I want to try it again? Making it have smaller stakes so that you can try and not get hung up on making mistakes and hesitating because, β€œI don’t want to be bad.” 

Laura ponders priorities and focus. β€œWhere do we invest our time, and?” Wouldn’t it be easier sometimes to say, β€œNo, not for me.” If it doesn’t fit into the big goals, the things we want to achieve. It’s also important to give yourself the permission to say, β€œif this isn’t for me and I actually don’t like this, I don’t have to be forced to continue to try it.”

What’s Your Hot Sauce?
What do you dash on your oysters to make them palatable? Β 

Share your tips and tricks that help you choose, Yes or No, as you keep leaning in to the next step forward.

**What’s Your Hot Sauce? –Β  Episode 29**


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● Curtis Sittenfeld, Romantic Comedy πŸŽ§πŸ“•

● J. Ryan Straddle, Kitchens of the Great Midwest πŸŽ§πŸ“•

● Robert M. Sapolsky, Determined: A Science of Life Without Free Will πŸŽ§πŸ“˜

● John Green, The Anthropocene Reviewed πŸŽ§πŸ“™

● Marcus Aurelius, Meditations πŸŽ§πŸ“˜

● BrenΓ© Brown, Braving the Wilderness πŸŽ§πŸ“˜

● Mateo Bornico, Create Belonging podcast
– https://createbelonging.com πŸŽ™οΈπŸŽ§

● Mel Robbins, 5 Rules of Money Podcast 🎧


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Welcome to In Residence with Keith and Laura. We are creatives and makers at heart, seeking to make change, create culture and build relationships for ourselves and people like us who choose to show up and dig a little deeper. Join us as we grow in our partnership, as individuals, and connect ideas through conversation In Residence.

Setbacks

When we have setbacks, what do we have in place to help us through that dip? 

Laura talks about the setback that ended her tennis playing journey in college. Keith wonders about what support and systems we can design to help us push forward after a setback, or “failure.”Β 

What is success anyway? 

With a project, a game, or anything you’re doing, if something’s uncomfortable or just not quite working, how do you simply say, “How could I modify this?” It can take time to shift and overcome setbacks. Sometimes, it’s simply showing up and taking the little steps before the big leap.Β 

So, if you’ve let something sit dormant for a while, it doesn’t matter. You can still go and do the thing that brings you joy.Β 

You don’t need to wait. Keep leaning in. 

“…A Light Heart Lives Long.” – William Shakespeare 

 “You must love and care for yourself, because that’s when the best comes out.” – Tina Turner

**Setbacks –  Episode 28**

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● BrenΓ© Brown, Braving the WildernessπŸŽ§πŸ“˜

● Mateo Bornico, Create Belonging podcastπŸŽ™οΈπŸŽ§

● Mel Robbins, The 5 Second Rule πŸŽ§πŸ“•

● Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist πŸŽ§πŸ“—

● Seth Godin, This Is Marketing πŸŽ§πŸ“™

● Seth Godin, Poke the Box πŸŽ§πŸ“™

● Seth Godin, The Song of SignificanceπŸŽ§πŸ“˜

● Rick Rubin, The Creative Act: A Way of BeingπŸŽ§πŸ“˜

● Tara Schuster, Buy Yourself the F*cking LiliesπŸŽ§πŸ“˜

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Attention Please Maybe

Attention is a precious resource. What do you focus on? Where do you want to go.

Laura and Keith experience, well, most things differently. Attention is at the top of the list. Good, Bad, Indifferent. We interpret and react to stimulus, feedback, criticism in our own ways. 

This conversation is a journey. Keith exercises his knowledge and learnings around brand, marketing and how to serve. Laura digs into the difference between original and unique. We are both on the path to change.

Thanks for joining us! 

**Attention Please Maybe –  Episode 23** 

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● Seth Godin, This Is Marketing πŸŽ§πŸ“™

● Seth Godin, Poke the Box πŸŽ§πŸ“™

● Seth Godin, The Song of Significance πŸŽ§πŸ“˜

● Rick Rubin, The Creative Act: A Way of Being πŸŽ§πŸ“˜

● Tara Schuster, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies πŸŽ§πŸ“˜

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Curating Your Space

In this episode Keith and Laura talk about setting up their spaces, decluttering and making room for the things that make their lives better. 

It’s important to think about what we surround ourselves with in our day to day. People, places and things, right? It all affects how we show up.

Take some time for yourself and think about what lights you up and supports you in creating the life you desire. What areas of your life are you looking to pay attention to?

We pull on threads from Marie Kondo’s “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up” and Tara Schuster’s “Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies.”

Thanks for joining us!

**Curating Your Space –  Episode 22** 
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β–Ύ Here are select works and resources we enjoy and find helpful β–Ύ

● Tara Schuster, Buy Yourself the F*cking Lilies

● Marie Kondo, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up –

● Seth Godin, The Song of Significance

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